Today I had someone tell me, "When I die, I want to come back as you." I laughed and responded with, "This isn't courage; it is stupidity."
This theme of fear versus opportunity came up in several conversations for me today.
We ended up talking about how courage and the confidence of looking at something fearful can also be seen as an opportunity. I fully agree. I think I look at a lot of situations that scare me and think how that fear is hurting me.
For example, I'm shit-scared of airports. Has nothing to do with the crowds or actually flying, but I just very much dislike airports. But I REFUSE to let that stop me from seeing all the places in the world that inspire me. How can I let it? How could I possibly let one irrational fear hold me back from exploring my dreams?
Granted, the people that travel with me are well aware of this fear and, while probably really annoyed, have always helped me. Gradually, I feel I'm getting better with airports, but since I don't fly much more than maybe once a year, it is hard to practice this growing confidence because I feel like I'm starting over every time I take another trip. ANYWAY.
Unlike I said, it isn't stupidity either. I think sometimes it can be, but mostly, it is courage and confidence to overstep your fears. Just because I jumped off a platform and had to stare 90ft down into a ravine, doesn't mean I wasn't scared.
Today, I also heard a lot people say, "Oh, of course she'll do it, she's used to this!"
Thrill-seekers may come across as fearless, but that isn't always the case. Maybe it is them feeling empowered by their opportunity to push past their fears?
But it is all about the opportunity... right?
So, what about when you don't "take the plunge" or do something else that makes you uneasy? Does that make you a coward?
The answer is NO! I also feel that knowing you own personal limits is a strength and a voice of confidence. It shows that you are comfortable with yourself and you are aware of your own capabilities.
Empower.
Jump.
Be Confident.
